- Tuesday, December 17, 2024
- Saturday, December 07, 2024
- Tuesday, November 26, 2024
Money Matters: A Reflection on Modern Values
In January 2024, during one of my lectures at Manara International School in Başakşehir, Istanbul, I had a deep and meaningful discussion with my grade 12 students about life, success, and the role of money. These students, standing at the threshold of practical life, are eager to understand what lies ahead. It was during this lecture that an important truth about modern society emerged, one that I felt compelled to share.
The Conversation Begins
I started by addressing a common phrase we often hear: "Money doesn’t matter." While it may sound virtuous, I pointed out that this statement is far from the reality we live in today. I told them, "Money matters. Money is everything." My words startled the students, and their reactions were immediate.
Hearing their unanimous response, I nodded and told them, "Now let’s go deeper into this idea of success."
The Reality of Money
I explained that the Almighty God did not send us to this world merely to accumulate wealth. Life is meant to be lived according to the rules set out in the Quran. Yet, in today’s world, we associate almost everything—happiness, relationships, and honor—with money.
I went on to say, “When we prioritize wealth above all else, we begin to weigh people not by their character, values, or contributions to society, but by how much money they have. A person’s wealth now determines their status and influence, regardless of their morality or behavior.”
A Lesson in Faith
I clarified my point. "The reason I say this," I told them, "is because we have started treating money as if it is the ultimate power. We associate success and happiness with wealth. We measure relationships and respect by financial standing. When we do this, we unconsciously replace the Almighty God with money in our hearts."
I reminded them that this mindset is a form of shirk—the act of associating partners with Allah, the greatest sin in Islam. "We have made money our god," I said. "And this is a dangerous path."
A Moment of Reflection
As the discussion continued, I saw the realization dawn upon their faces. They began to understand the weight of my words. By the end of the lecture, they agreed with the perspective I had shared. It was a moment of collective reflection—not just for them, but for me as well.
The Takeaway
The purpose of sharing this incident is to highlight the importance of aligning our lives with true values. Money, while necessary, should never take precedence over faith, character, and purpose. As a society, we need to re-evaluate what we define as success and ensure that our priorities do not lead us astray.
The Almighty has blessed us with resources to live a balanced life, not one solely driven by the pursuit of wealth. Let’s strive to remember this truth and teach it to the next generation, so they can lead lives that are meaningful, fulfilling, and true to their Creator’s guidance.
- Saturday, November 23, 2024
The Cost of Chasing Dreams Abroad: A Tale of Two Choices
In recent times, many Pakistanis, inspired by others, have set out to move to the UK, Europe, or the USA. Some have succeeded, while others remain caught in the effort to migrate. Let me share the story of two individuals who faced contrasting outcomes in their pursuit of a better life abroad. Although I won’t disclose their names or cities, the lessons from their experiences are universal.
The First Story: A Costly Struggle in the UK
The first individual hailed from a village and was relatively educated. He sold a significant portion of his ancestral land, fetching nearly 10 million PKR (Pakistani Rupees), to fund his journey abroad. He consulted two agents: one offered a route to the USA via South America for 9 million PKR, while the other proposed a direct work permit to the UK for about the same cost.
Driven by the desire to join the wave of people heading abroad, he chose the UK option. Within a month of arriving, however, his dreams began to unravel. The company that sponsored his work permit had no actual job for him, and the permit was soon canceled.
Faced with two choices—returning to Pakistan or finding another work permit—he decided to stay. Through a connection, he secured another work permit but had to pay a hefty fee, depleting his remaining savings. This left him completely broke in Pakistan.
The new company informed him that while they couldn’t offer a job, they could help him find one elsewhere. However, he would need to pay both his own taxes and the company’s government-mandated taxes to keep his permit valid.
Desperate, he took on two jobs, but even after covering his expenses, taxes, and rent, he could barely save 50,000 to 60,000 PKR a month to send back home. This was after spending nearly 18 million PKR in total to settle abroad.
The Second Story: Building a Life Locally
The second individual also dreamed of moving abroad but lacked formal education. He had saved around 3 million PKR for his plans but couldn’t proceed. On the advice of a well-wisher, he decided to invest the money locally instead.
He opened a general store in his area and added a chicken meat counter alongside. Within a few months, his small venture began earning him a significant monthly profit. Today, he enjoys a comfortable life with his family, earning far more than he could have if he had gone abroad.
Lessons to Learn
These two stories highlight the importance of making informed decisions. Jumping on the bandwagon of migration without research and planning can lead to disastrous consequences.
If you are highly skilled—such as a doctor, engineer, or IT professional—and receive a genuine job offer from abroad, it might make sense to go. However, selling off assets and blindly heading overseas is not the answer, especially in a time when countries like the UK, USA, and Europe are facing economic recessions and tightening their visa policies.
On the other hand, investing in a local business, even on a small scale, can offer a stable and prosperous future. Sometimes, the opportunities we seek abroad can be created right at home.
- Wednesday, October 09, 2024
The Ongoing Conflict in Palestine: A Call for Peace
The situation in Palestine has reached alarming levels in recent weeks, with reports indicating a significant loss of life, including many innocent children. According to various news sources, thousands of Palestinians have been killed due to the ongoing violence, and the humanitarian crisis is worsening daily.
Recent reports highlight that Israel has targeted areas densely populated with civilians, leading to devastating casualties. The United Nations has stated that the number of Palestinian deaths has exceeded 30,000, including thousands of children. This tragic loss of life is a heartbreaking reminder of the human cost of conflict.
In the latest developments, Hezbollah, a liberation group based in Lebanon, has begun to target Israel’s critical infrastructure. This morning 08-09 Oct, Hezbollah launched missiles aimed at the gas extraction platform in the Israeli Leviathan field, as reported by Walla News. This escalation marks a new phase in the regional conflict, further complicating an already tense situation.
As a Muslim and someone who deeply cares about human rights, I hope for a day when the people of Palestine can live in peace and freedom. The cycle of violence must end, and both sides should come together to find a lasting solution.
In these trying times, we must remember the humanity of all individuals affected by this conflict. My heart goes out to the families who have lost loved ones, especially children, who are the most vulnerable in these situations. We must continue to advocate for peace and justice for all people in the region. May Palestine find peace soon. Amen
- Wednesday, July 10, 2024
I'm working as a lecturer in Istanbul, and one thing that really bothers me is the fake marketing by schools and colleges here. It's heartbreaking to see students posing happily in social media ads when, in reality, they're miserable because of the poor management. These students, and those who watch these ads on Facebook or Instagram, all know the truth—that these ads are completely fake. They promise quality education, sports facilities, and various programs, none of which are actually provided due to a lack of qualified teachers and proper resources.
Management continues to push these false narratives, pretending to offer great opportunities when they don't. These ads not only mislead the public but also teach students to lie, as they see dishonesty rewarded. It's shameful how these educational institutions have turned into mere businesses.
Shame on the management of these schools and colleges.
- Saturday, June 08, 2024
I recently came back from a work trip in Türkiye, only to face a new hassle at home in Pakistan. My National Identity Card (CNIC) had expired last year, so I needed to renew it. I was thrilled to find out that now you can renew it online and get it delivered to your doorstep. Or so I thought.
NADRA, the government body responsible for issuing CNICs, chose to deliver my renewed card through TCS, a private delivery company. This is where the trouble began. It's been over a week, and TCS still hasn't delivered my card. This isn't the first time TCS has delayed deliveries. They often do this so that people are forced to visit their office and pick up their parcels themselves.
What's the point of offering a doorstep delivery service, NADRA, if it doesn't work? It's baffling why NADRA chose a private company like TCS instead of using the Pakistan Postal Service, which is a reliable national service. The Pakistan Postal Service delivers directly to your door without any issues.
This situation highlights a bigger problem in our country. Our government is filled with people who are either corrupt or just plain stupid. These officials make decisions that harm Pakistan's economy and structure. This mess with NADRA and TCS is just one example of their incompetence.
I'm amazed and disappointed. NADRA is supposed to be a trustworthy government body, but their decision to use TCS shows a lack of common sense. They should have used the Pakistan Postal Service, which has a good track record. Instead, they've chosen a company that can't do its job properly.
Pakistan is suffering because of these poor decisions made by people in power. Our government agencies are run by individuals who don't seem to care about doing their jobs well. This incompetence is damaging our country, and it's a shame!!!
This experience has been incredibly frustrating. NADRA, you need to do better. If our government bodies can't make smart choices, how can we expect our country to progress? It's high time we demand better from those who are supposed to serve us.
- Monday, March 25, 2024
- Thursday, March 21, 2024
In the fast-paced world of technology, our smartphones have become indispensable companions, accompanying us through every aspect of our lives. From managing schedules to staying connected with loved ones, these devices play a crucial role. However, like any other electronic device, smartphones require regular maintenance to ensure optimal performance and longevity.
One simple yet often overlooked practice that can significantly benefit your smartphone is restarting it once a day. While it may seem unnecessary or inconvenient, this routine maintenance task can actually help preserve your device's battery life and ensure the smooth operation of apps.
Imagine your smartphone's battery as a muscle that needs regular exercise to stay healthy. Just like physical activity keeps our bodies in shape, restarting your smartphone helps recalibrate its software, preventing unnecessary drain on the battery. Throughout the day, various apps and processes run in the background, consuming precious battery life. By restarting your device, you effectively close these background processes, giving your battery a chance to rest and recharge. Over time, this simple habit can contribute to preserving your battery's capacity and extending its lifespan.
Have you ever noticed that your apps sometimes become sluggish or unresponsive? This could be due to accumulated cache, temporary files, or software glitches. Restarting your smartphone clears out these digital cobwebs, providing a fresh start for your apps to operate smoothly. Think of it as giving your smartphone a mini-spa day. Just as we feel rejuvenated after a good night's sleep or a refreshing shower, your apps benefit from a clean slate provided by a daily restart. This practice can help prevent crashes, freeze-ups, and other performance issues, ensuring a seamless user experience.
Examples of Benefits:
1. Improved Performance: After restarting your smartphone, you may notice that apps open faster, transitions are smoother, and overall performance is snappier.
2. Extended Battery Life: Users who adopt the habit of daily restarts often report longer battery life, especially on older devices that may be plagued by battery drain issues.
3. Reduced App Crashes: By clearing out temporary files and resetting app processes, restarting your smartphone can help mitigate the risk of app crashes and system instability.
In conclusion, incorporating a daily restart into your smartphone routine is a small yet effective way to keep your device in peak condition. Just as we take care of our physical health through regular exercise and rest, our smartphones also benefit from periodic maintenance. So, why not give your device the TLC it deserves? Your battery and apps will thank you for it!
Remember, a healthy smartphone leads to a happier and more productive digital life. So, don't forget to hit that restart button and enjoy the benefits of a well-maintained device!
- Sunday, March 05, 2023
- Saturday, March 04, 2023
- Friday, March 03, 2023
Plant-based diets are becoming increasingly popular
due to their numerous health benefits, environmental sustainability, and animal
welfare concerns. A plant-based diet is a way of eating that focuses on whole,
minimally processed plant foods such as fruits, vegetables, whole grains,
legumes, nuts, and seeds while limiting or avoiding animal products.
There are many benefits to a plant-based diet. One of the most significant
benefits is improved health. Plant-based diets have been associated with lower
risks of chronic diseases such as heart disease, diabetes, and certain cancers.
For example, a study conducted by Harvard researchers found that people who ate
a plant-based diet had a 25% lower risk of heart disease than those who ate a
meat-based diet.
In addition to the health benefits, plant-based diets are also good for the environment. Animal agriculture is a significant contributor to greenhouse gas emissions, deforestation, and water pollution. By eating more plant-based foods and fewer animal products, we can help reduce our carbon footprint and preserve our planet's natural resources.
However, adopting a plant-based diet can be challenging, especially for those
used to eating a meat-heavy diet. One of the biggest challenges is getting
enough protein. While it's true that plant-based sources of protein are
generally lower in protein than animal sources, there are still plenty of
options available. For example, one cup of cooked lentils contains 18 grams of
protein, which is comparable to a three-ounce serving of chicken.
Another challenge is the lack of convenience. It can be challenging to find
plant-based options when eating out or when traveling. However, with the
increasing popularity of plant-based diets, more restaurants and food companies
are offering plant-based options.
Real-life examples of plant-based diets
Many celebrities and athletes have adopted plant-based diets and have seen
significant health benefits. For example, former President Bill Clinton adopted
a plant-based diet after experiencing heart problems. Since then, he has lost
weight and improved his cholesterol levels.
Another example is the tennis player Novak Djokovic, who credits his
plant-based diet for his success on the court. He has been following a
plant-based diet since 2011 and has won numerous Grand Slam titles since then.
Plant-based diets have numerous benefits, including
improved health, environmental sustainability, and animal welfare concerns.
While there are some challenges to adopting a plant-based diet, such as getting
enough protein and lack of convenience, there are still plenty of options
available. By incorporating more plant-based foods into our diets, we can
improve our health and the health of our planet.
- Thursday, February 23, 2023
Mindful living is a lifestyle approach that emphasizes living in the present moment, being fully engaged in activities, and cultivating a non-judgmental awareness of one's thoughts and feelings. Practicing mindful living has been shown to improve physical and mental health, reduce stress, and enhance overall well-being.
Here are some simple steps to incorporate mindful living into your daily routine:
Practice Gratitude: Take time each day to reflect on what you're grateful for. This can be as simple as listing three things you're thankful for before going to bed each night. By focusing on what you have, rather than what you lack, you'll cultivate a more positive outlook on life.
Be Present: One of the key tenets of mindfulness is being present in the moment. Take a few minutes each day to focus on your breath and observe your surroundings without judgment. This can be as simple as taking a few deep breaths before beginning a task, or taking a short walk and noticing the sights and sounds around you.
Engage in Mindful Eating: Mindful eating involves paying attention to the experience of eating, savoring each bite, and tuning in to your body's hunger and fullness signals. This can help you make healthier food choices and avoid overeating.
Practice Mindful Communication: Mindful communication involves listening to others with an open mind, speaking honestly and respectfully, and being fully present in conversations. By practicing mindful communication, you'll build stronger relationships and avoid unnecessary conflict.
Engage in Mindful Movement: Mindful movement practices, such as yoga, tai chi, or walking meditation, can help you connect with your body, reduce stress, and increase physical flexibility and strength.
Disconnect from Technology: Technology can be a major source of distraction and stress. Take time each day to disconnect from your devices and engage in activities that don't involve screens, such as reading, spending time in nature, or practicing a hobby.
By incorporating these
simple steps into your daily routine, you'll be on your way to living a more
mindful and fulfilling life. Remember, the key to mindful living is to be
present in the moment and approach each day with an open and non-judgmental
attitude.
- Thursday, February 16, 2023
- Sunday, January 29, 2023
Sleep well
Eat a balanced diet
Avoid sun exposure
Quit smoking
Reduce stress
Use anti-aging skincare products
Maintain a healthy weight
Stay positive and active
- Saturday, January 28, 2023
- Tuesday, January 17, 2023
- Saturday, December 31, 2022
A New Year's resolution is a tradition in which a person resolves to change an undesired trait or behavior, to accomplish a personal goal, or to improve their life. Many people make New Year's resolutions in the hope of improving themselves or their lives in some way.
- Friday, December 30, 2022