Showing posts with label Purpose of life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Purpose of life. Show all posts
  • Friday, December 22, 2023

Some students recently asked me, "Sir, what is success?" I replied with a simple idea: "For some people, success is having a lot of money. But how much money is enough? That's a tricky question because there seems to be no end to it."

However, I believe success is more than just money. In my view, it's about achieving the things that truly matter to you. If you work hard to make your heartfelt wishes come true, that's success. I want to emphasize that these wishes should be yours, not something you copied from someone else because they seem successful.

Let's take examples like a person who dreams of becoming a writer or opening a café. If they put in effort and see their dreams come true, that's success to me.

I also want to challenge the idea that success is all about money. It's a bit like a bottomless pit – the more you have, the more you want. I've never met someone with a million dollars who says, "I don't need more!"

To put it simply, success goes beyond money; it's about making your true dreams a reality. As Ralph Waldo Emerson once said, "To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded."

So, success is not just about the zeros in your bank account but about living a fulfilling life pursuing your genuine dreams. As Henry David Thoreau wisely put it, "Success usually comes to those who are too busy to be looking for it." It's in the journey of following our passions that we often find the real meaning of success.

What is Success? -Abdullah Mahmood
  • Saturday, December 17, 2022
Love is a complex mix of emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection, protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person. It can also include deep romantic or sexual attraction. 
Make time for each other and do things together that you both enjoy.

There is no one-size-fits-all definition of love or formula for maintaining it, as the experience of love can vary greatly from person to person and can change over time. However, here are a few general tips for maintaining love in a relationship:

  • Communication: It's important to be open and honest with your partner, and to be able to express your thoughts, feelings, and needs effectively. This can help you to understand and support each other, and to resolve conflicts in a healthy way.
  • Respect: Showing your partner respect and appreciation can help to strengthen your bond and deepen your love. This means listening to their perspective, valuing their feelings, and showing them consideration.
  • Trust: Trust is a key component of any healthy relationship, and it's especially important in a loving relationship. Building and maintaining trust involves being honest, reliable, and consistent in your words and actions.
  • Quality time: Make time for each other and do things together that you both enjoy. This can help you to feel connected and strengthen the bond between you.
  • Flexibility and compromise: No relationship is perfect, and it's important to be willing to compromise and be flexible in order to find solutions that work for both of you.
  • Support: Offer emotional and practical support to your partner, and let them know that you are there for them. This can help to foster a sense of mutual care and respect.
Ultimately, the key to maintaining love in a relationship is to be kind, thoughtful, and considerate towards your partner, and to make an effort to strengthen your bond through communication, trust, and shared experiences.
  • Wednesday, December 14, 2022

 What is success? Is it an expensive car, a big house, an expensive lifestyle? Can success in life come from lots of money?

success is yours, just be polite with everyone


 I got the answer from Islam. According to Islam, a peaceful successful life is when God's creation is not angry with you. Allah is pleased with you when people are not harmed or disturbed by you. Islam says that the contented person in life is one who does not have the habit of accumulating more or spending more. This person's heart is satisfied. We often see that people who spend a lot of money on a house, a car, make their life a part of a show off. 

 Their goal in life becomes to collect as much money as possible. The real purpose of life that Islam tells us is to meet and talk and laugh with our parents, siblings, relatives and everyone.

 Islam is the religion of nature. Islam is a code of life that helps us in every difficulty of life and answers every question.

  • Saturday, December 10, 2022
This person will go to heaven before millions of people.

A picture that pushed me into a sea of ​​sadness. This man is sleeping on the side of the road as if the world has nothing to do with him. The world is indeed a strange spectacle, the world may be pitied, but perhaps the number of those who support a stranger is also changing with the changing times. And this number is decreasing not increasing.

Yes, but I am happy because this person will go to heaven before me. This person will go to heaven before millions of people. Islam said, My beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said that the first to enter Paradise will be those who persevere in spite of a poor, miserable life. 

Amen

  • Monday, November 21, 2022

My parents are on a trip to Madinah and Makkah. They have gone to perform Umrah. If I was in Pakistan, I would have gone to perform Umrah with my mother and father. But maybe this beautiful moment was not in my luck yet. Now when mom and dad send pictures to family whatsapp group it looks very beautiful.

Below is the BİLAL-İ HABEŞİ MESCİDİ captured by my mother.

BİLAL-İ HABEŞİ MESCİDİ










The real purpose of life is to please Allah. That we were all sent to this world of yours, but we did not do anything that you, my God, would be angry with us.

We all make mistakes, but the best option to clean up those mistakes that Allah has given is to repent. And performing Hajj and Umrah. May Allah bless my parents with happiness and good health, Ameen. And may all their supplications be accepted in Madinah, Makkah, Ameen.

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