Showing posts with label Lesson. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Lesson. Show all posts
  • Monday, December 19, 2022
Being friends with everyone can be challenging, as not everyone may want to be friends with you and that's okay. However, there are a few things you can do to increase the likelihood that people will want to be friends with you:
it's okay if not everyone wants to be friends with you.
Be kind and considerate: Treat others with respect and kindness, and try to see things from their perspective.
Show genuine interest in others: Ask questions and listen to their answers. People often appreciate it when others show a genuine interest in them.

Be a good listener: People often like to talk about themselves, so listen attentively and show that you care about what they have to say.

Be open to new experiences: Try new things and be open to meeting new people. This can help you form new friendships and broaden your horizons.

Be respectful of others' boundaries: Respect others' personal space and privacy, and don't push them to do things they don't want to do.

Remember that it's okay if not everyone wants to be friends with you. It's more important to focus on building meaningful, positive relationships with the people you do connect with.
  • Sunday, December 18, 2022

An old man carrying a large basket of glassware on his head was going to town to sell. While walking, he stumbled a little and a glass slipped from the basket and fell down... Broke.

Learn to forget mistakes - The Old Man

The old man continued to walk at his same speed as if nothing had happened. Another passer-by who was walking behind saw him and ran to the old man and said: "Babaji! You may not have noticed, a vessel behind you has fallen from the basket and broken."

The old man said without slowing down: "Son, I know."

The passer-by: "He said in surprise, Babaji! "If you know, then why you don't stop?"

Old man "Son, it is useless to stop now for something that has fallen and broken___ 

If I had stopped, would have put the basket on the ground, would have looked at the broken thing that cannot be fixed, would have regretted. Then If I had picked up the basket and put it on my head, I would have ruined my time. I would have done some other damage in carrying the basket again, and the business I had to do in the city would have been spoiled because of regret. 

Son, I broke glass. But  "I have saved myself a lot by leaving it there."

Some problems, misunderstandings, losses and troubles in our life are just like broken glass which we should forget, let go and move on.

Why???? Because these are the burdens that slows you down new troubles surround you.. take away your smile. It destroys the motivation and will to move forward. So learn to forget your worries, troubles and losses and move on!

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